Porumai (பொறுமை) is a virtue noun in Tamil ethics (especially Tirukkural), denoting calm, steadfast bearing of hardship, insult, or delay without resentment.
| English Gloss | When to Use |
|---|---|
| Patience | General waiting, tolerance of delay. |
| Forbearance | Restraint from retaliation when wronged. |
| Endurance | Physical/mental stamina under prolonged stress. |
| Perseverance | Persistent effort despite obstacles. |
| Tolerance | Acceptance of difference or discomfort. |
| Resignation | Acceptance of inevitable (can imply passivity). |
| Composure | Outward calm in crisis. |
| Equanimity | Mental balance—neither elated nor depressed. |
| Serenity | Peaceful, untroubled state. |
| Calmness | Absence of agitation. |
Tirukkural 151–160 (Chapter 16: Porumai) — "Porumai is the ornament of the strong; it conquers foes without war."