How to Ask Someone's Age in Norwegian: Complete Guide

Asking "How old are you?" in Norwegian requires choosing the right level of formality. Norwegian distinguishes between informal du and formal De (though the formal form is increasingly rare in daily life).

The Two Standard Forms

FormNorwegianPronunciation (approx.)When to Use
InformalHvor gammel er du?Vor gam-mel air doo?Friends, family, children, peers, casual settings
FormalHvor gammel er De?Vor gam-mel air Day?Elders, authority figures, formal business (rarely used today)

Pronunciation Tips

  • Hvor – like "vor" (vohr), not "hvor" with English H
  • Gammel – stress first syllable, 'mm' doubled, final 'el' like "el" in "level"
  • Er – like "air" but shorter, rolled 'r' if you can
  • Du – like "doo" (short)
  • De – like "day" (formal 'you')

Modern Usage Reality

Norwegians almost universally use du. The formal De has largely disappeared from everyday speech since the 1970s "du-reformen." You'll hear it only:

  • In very formal written correspondence
  • From older speakers addressing much younger people (sometimes)
  • In traditional/service contexts (royal court, some high-end hospitality)
  • In textbooks teaching "proper" grammar

Using De in casual conversation can sound stiff, archaic, or even sarcastic. When in doubt, use du.

Alternative & Related Phrases

PhraseMeaningContext
Når er bursdagen din?When is your birthday?Softer, more conversational
Hvilket år er du født?What year were you born?Indirect, less personal
Hvor mange år er du?How many years are you?Child-friendly, sometimes used with kids
Gratulerer med dagen!Happy birthday! / Congratulations on the day!Standard birthday greeting (any age)

Cultural Notes

  • Age isn't a sensitive topic in Norway – asking is normal in getting-to-know-you conversations
  • Birthdays are celebrated enthusiastically; the birthday person typically brings cake to work/school
  • "Å bli gammel er en privilegium" – "Getting old is a privilege" (common saying)

Dialect Note

Norwegian has many dialects. In some regions you might hear:

  • Bergen/West: "Kor gammel er du?" (kor = hvor)
  • Trøndelag/Central: "Ka gammel er du?" (ka = hvor)
  • North: "Koss gammel er du?"

But "Hvor gammel er du?" is understood everywhere.

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