Traveling with teenagers can be like trying to shove a wet noodle through a keyhole---it's difficult and can seem pointless. Teens are often difficult to impress and tend to roll their eyes at an adult's idea of a good time. It seems parents just aren't cool enough for their kids in any situation. However, refrain from throwing in the towel until you have considered a few great ideas to use during the family vacation that will make it a good experience for parents and their teen children.
It won't be long before your teenager is out in the world experiencing things on his own. During a vacation you may be surprised at how receptive a teen is to doing some adult activities that parents will surely enjoy. Take the opportunity to broaden his horizons and expose him to things he doesn't regularly see.
Buy tickets to a Broadway-style show if your travels take you to a large city. Make reservations at a fine dining restaurant complete with gourmet foods served on a white tablecloth. Teenagers, especially those in their late teens, may take a real interest in this kind of leisure time and will learn from the experience.
Cruise ships have undergone major evolution in recent years, transforming from a floating hotel for older travelers to a floating fun resort for families with children of all ages. Many of today's cruise ships have areas, or entire decks, devoted to the entertainment of teenagers.
There are opportunities on many ships for teens to escape the watchful eye of the parents and go do their own thing and hang out with others their own age. Teen clubs, movie theaters, video game areas and much more will allow these finicky travelers to enjoy their vacation and still have time to spend with family onboard. In addition, parents will get some alone time out on the romantic high seas.
While on vacation with teenagers, consider renting a condo or house. If this is not possible, try to obtain two adjoining hotel rooms. These options allow teenagers to have their own separate quarters and space to themselves.
Vacations should be stress free, enjoyable experiences as much as possible. This isn't true only for the parents, but the children as well. Make a conscious effort to make the accommodations a nag-free zone. Don't worry if they pick up their clothes off the floor or make their beds or do anything else within reason. There is time to correct that behavior once you get back home. For now, separate rooms will allow you to turn a blind eye to their mess and let them be kids.
The teenagers in the traveling party may not think a day spent touring a vineyard or a historical site is as interesting as you do. But that's okay. It's your vacation too.
However, let the teens have some days too. Before the trip ever begins, talk about where you are going and what is available there. Let everyone pick out something that you can all do together. This way everyone has a voice and lends ideas to the family trip. Letting a teen plan the day's activities once or twice during a week's vacation will likely make his travels more enjoyable.
