Colonists fought alongside British regulars against the French (1754–1763), yet within a decade they were at war with Britain. Six interlocking factors explain the shift:
Britain's war debt (~£130M) led to Stamp Act (1765), Townshend Acts (1767), Tea Act (1773). Colonists had no MPs in Parliament; "No taxation without representation" became the rallying cry.
Navigation Acts enforced: trade only on British ships, enumerated goods (tobacco, sugar) only to Britain. Smuggling was criminalized; admiralty courts (no juries) tried violators.
~10,000 British troops stationed in colonies after 1763. Colonists viewed them as enforcers of unpopular laws, not protectors. Clashes (Boston Massacre 1770) deepened hatred.
Locke, Montesquieu, Paine (Common Sense) popularized natural rights, social contract, consent of the governed. Monarchy looked illegitimate.
Speculators (Washington, Franklin) and settlers wanted Ohio Valley lands. Britain's Proclamation Line and Quebec Act (1774) (giving Ohio to Quebec) blocked them.
The war had removed the French threat (less need for British protection) while exposing British imperial arrogance. The alliance dissolved because the partners wanted fundamentally different futures.