The ideal getaway is a time of intriguing exploration and relaxing respite, enjoying your new setting without a care in the world. But that can't happen if you're too caught up in your everyday life back home. Here are a few tips to really leave things behind, so you can truly get away from it all.
Make a checklist of responsibilities that need to be covered while you're gone such as plants, children, pets-and how they'll be taken care of. Prioritize so you can ensure that at least all the crucial ones are taken care of.
Practice "living in the moment," a Zen technique that shuts out concerns about the past and future to help fully appreciate and experience the present situation. Even lying on the beach won't be any fun, after all, if you're dwelling on a past regret or fretting about a future obstacle.
Take your time when possible, and try to savor every locale and venue you visit rather than racing about trying to see everything. You'll have more fun, remember your journeys better and be more relaxed.
Keep a travel journal that is completely dedicated to what you're doing on the road, not your life back home. This will keep you focused on the present and more mentally immersed in your trip.
Take your personal portable music player along with you, as music can be very relaxing and uplifting. Try to find some tunes you don't always listen to or find music local to the area you're seeing, as this will help with your efforts to appreciate your new surroundings and forget your old ones.
Eat and drink things that are indigenous to-or at least popular in-the locale you're visiting, and not the old "standbys" you usually rely upon. This will help keep your mindset on your current location and not "bring you back" to thoughts about home.
If you're a working professional, take the steps necessary to fully leave your office life behind you. It might sound crazy, but you really should leave that cell phone and laptop behind or you just might find yourself hunkered down doing work instead of really enjoying your vacation.
Keep in mind, should you begin dwelling on your everyday stresses back home, that everything-bad or good-can be dealt with upon your return, and is not truly under your control while you're on the road.
