Identify the types of people you want to hang out with. Portland is a city that celebrates diversity. Do you want to talk about politics and religion or would you rather play board games and drink micro-brewed beer?
Research your interest group on the internet. Websites such as Meetup.org have a large following in the Portland area.
Email group leaders and ask for information about the next meeting. Map out where the meetings are in proximity to your house.
Record the times, dates and locations of the meetings so you do not forget to attend.
Tell someone where you are going. Meeting people from the internet can be dangerous, so it's wise to always let someone know where you are.
Map out the route you will take to get to the event, either by car or by public transit. Some events will even have carpool options.
Wear your favorite outfit. You will feel more comfortable in your favorite clothes.
Leave your house early so you can arrive at your location on time. Circle the meeting place beforehand to make sure you are comfortable with the location.
Make eye contact with group leaders. Smile as much as possible without it seeming forced.
Introduce yourself. Do not wait for other people to walk up and introduce themselves to you.
Stay intentional. If there are people you want to spend more time with, express that to them.
Record the contact information of the people you met. Write down details about them to help jog your memory later on.
Contact your new friends within a few days. Invite them to meet in a neutral location, like a coffee shop.
Don't get discouraged. Building relationships takes time. They are worth the effort you put into them.
