Consider who is already in the car. It is always safer for two people to pick up a hitchhiker than one, and it is also safer for a man to pick up a hitchhiker than it is for a woman. If there are children in the car, you may be reluctant to pick up a hitchhiker, but it can be good way to model generosity for children. It can also teach children how to be comfortable and safe around people from all walks of life.
Notice how many people need a ride. Picking up one person is usually safer than picking up two, and it can also be safer to pick up a female. Look at how much luggage the hitchhiker has, and make sure there is enough room in your car. Sometimes hitchhikers have pets. If they do, consider whether you want to share your car with an animal.
Know where you are driving. In some places, picking up hitchhikers is illegal (these areas are usually indicated by a sign.) It is best to pick up a hitchhiker in the daytime and in an area that you know to be safe.
Pull over only if it is safe to do so. Turn on your turn signal, pass the hitchhiker, pull over onto the right side of the road, and turn on your hazard lights.
Stop and talk to the hitchhiker before letting her in your car. Start a friendly conversation by asking where she is going, and what she plans on doing when she gets there. Pay attention to whether she makes eye contact, her facial expression, and her tone of voice and overall coherence. Decide how far you are willing to drive the hitchhiker, and let her know before she gets in the car.
Be firm. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, pull over and politely tell the hitchhiker that you can't drive him any further. Do not share personal information, such as your address, destination, full name or phone number, until you have spent some time with the hitchhiker and feel completely safe.
Keep an open mind. Most hitchhikers will be very thankful for the ride, no matter how far you can drive them.
